Scared of Lonely

What is your biggest fear?
How do you scale such a thing? Most people would say death, seeing as though it is the epitome of finality, anything short of that is reversible (barring certain travesties but that's another topic). he reason I ask this today, is because I have heard many people tell me that their biggest fear is being alone. It has made me pause every time I have heard it. I love great company and value the dependability in others, regardless of what element it is in; but I question, was I not born alone?

I don't remember anyone being connected to my hip when I came into this world, so should I not be trained to have only two people to answer to - myself and the most high. I struggle with this, and by no means have I negated the importance of my child (whom I must consider in every decision that I make), but I know for a fact the most vulnerable moments I have met in life is when I have found myself "afraid to be alone." So what is to be made of this?

In this present moment I must deal with facts, and fact is when I am not afraid of being by myself, I feel empowered, independent, capable, and most importantly comfortable with myself.

What are you afraid of? Comment.
- Basquiat

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Bad News Bears

eyeAsk, How do you break bad news to a friend?
They say a real friend should always be able to tell another friend the truth, albeit right wrong or indifferent. Does everyone agree? In my man experiences I have come to realize that whether or not the friend appreciates it, I must keep it real for lack of a better term. Hating me or not, I would rather be able to hang my hat on the fact that I am straightforward with those whom I really care about. At this point I realize that it is not the easiest thing in the world, but it has become the most proficient.

I recently had to break some disturbing news to a friend, at the same time telling them about themselves and their ways. TOUGH love I called it; and it's definitely what I want in return. Anyone can be idle and watch, waiting for the so-called "I told you so" moment, but if you never mentioned anything how can it be?

As I grow, mature, succeed, fail, or remain status quo, I am trying to rest on my morals and be able to conquer one of the hardest things in the world - sleep comfortably with myself at night.

Do you not want the same? Leave your thoughts in a comment.

- Basquiat

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eyeWant: A BlackBerry Playbook

And the battle continues...iPhone or BlackBerry? Whatever your choice is, you now have another gadget to add to your wish list. Blackberry users, wallow no more, you now have a PlayBook. Yes, this is RIM’s BlackPad tablet device to the left which should be unveiled in a few days and hit stores this Holiday season.

There was no mention of on board storage capacity during the keynote, though the devices we just spied in our eyes-on post are labeled 16GB and 32GB on their back panels. The PlayBook will be capable of 1080p HD video, and comes equipped with an HDMI port as well as a microUSB jack, 802.11a/b/g/n WiFi, and Bluetooth 2.1. The device clocks in at a svelte 5.1- by 7.6-inches, is only 0.4-inches thick, and weighs just 400g (or about 0.9 pounds).

While that could paint an inelegant picture for many iPad users, it’s also a signal that RIM initially will market the device to its own core customers. The BlackPad reportedly will sport as many as two cameras, with one pointed at the user for videoconferencing.

Here's how the PlayBook measures up to the iPad:


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WoRD UP

Rigmarole

1. a set of confused and meaningless statements
2. a long and complicated and confusing procedure;

Say what?! "All that academic rigmarole was a waste of time."

Use it!

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eyeInspire: Be the Apple of His Eye

“Keep me as the apple of Your eye…” Psalm 17:8, NIV

In this day and age, people are considered to be important for so many different reasons — titles, position, possessions, where you go, what you drive, etc. But God’s value system is very different from the value system of the world. God cherishes and values you so much today, simply because He made you. You are the apple of His eye; the center of His world!

If you’ve ever thought that God has too many other important things on His plate to be concerned with you and your life, know this today — you are God’s number one priority. And there’s nothing you can do to be more important or less important to Him. He values you today and your value will never change. You are significant. Your life is significant. The things that concern you, concern God. He carefully watches over every detail of your life, and there is nothing too big or too small for His attention.

Today, don’t be afraid to take your concerns and cares to the Father. He loves to hear you call upon Him. He is waiting to show Himself strong on your behalf.

Here's a prayer you can say today: Father in heaven, thank You for loving me today. Thank You for keeping me the apple of Your eye. I open my heart and mind to You and cast every care on You. I receive Your love for me. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

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Eyeread vintage: Green Eggs & Ham

I will never forget the day I fell in love with Dr. Seuss.

I was four years-old, obsessed with reading, and could not get enough of his books.

The classic story follows a character that refuses to taste green eggs and ham. However, once he tries it, he loves it.

I have to admit the dish does not sound pleasing to my appetite. However, It was because of this story I learned the importance of being open-minded.

Unfortunately, many of us today choose to limit ourselves by not trying new things.

I’m here to tell you: DO NOT FEAR. There’s a world out there waiting for you to grace it with your presence! You never know until you try right?

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Urstrulee,

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SIA: Be Determined

Self-Improvement Awareness Month
Determination

Are you determined to succeed? Anyone one would answer with a "yes" to that question. But why is it that people's actions do not display a high degree of determination to reach their goals?

Fact is, for some, reaching success is easier said than done. If there's a lack of determination, it's more than likely that you will not reach success. Have you ever had to walk a long distance in order to get to a destination? Were you almost there and then came to a huge hill to walk up? Wasn't it discouraging? The weak willed will weigh their options and just turn around, giving up on their dream; while the determined prepare themselves for this uphill battle.

"It's easier to go down a hill than up it but the view is much better at the top."

- Henry Ward Beecher

Stay Determined!

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FASHiON FiGHT: Jada vs. Corinne

Jada Pinkett Smith vs. Corinne Bailey Rae
Sparkling stars! Jada stepped out in this silk organza sequined asymmetric Stella McCartney A/W 2010 mini. number first, oozing elegance as she took to the red carpet for the Karate Kid London premiere on July 15th.

The stylish star wore classic Brian Atwood platforms, a pewter clutch and chic high ponytail for the ultimate touch of panache.

Ms. Bailey-Rae followed suit and wore her paillette beauty with a pink pout to the Barclaycard Mercury Music Prize Awards on September 7th.

Jada opted out of the organza overlay which was worn on the runway, whereas Corinne braved the original outfit, topping off her look with glimmering silver sandals and an award to match.

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W.O.W.: The Ultimate Credit Card

Today's W.O.W post is in honor of what could be the future of all debit/credit cards. A company called Dynamics, Inc. has created a new credit card that is able to store multiple account numbers with an alternate version able to hide credit card number information. Check out the demo in the video below. Happy watching!

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Having Hope In the Hopeless...

Inspiration can be found in the most ironic places. As I boarded the train today on my way downtown to handle some tickets before the city of New York commandeers my vehicle today, I felt compelled to grab a copy of the daily news to keep me company on the ride. Under normal circumstances, being the avid sports fan that I am, I tend to read the newspaper the Islamic way(back to front) due to the back being the sports section.

For some reason today I went against my normal routine, feeling the need to catch up on the current events of my city. Looking for inspiration, as I often do, I was moved well let be honest I was overwhelmed by the coping mechanisms of a populace recently struck by tragedy. Over the weekend members of the Joy fellowship Christian Assemblies were involved in a horrific accident; which claimed the lives of 6 members, while hospitalizing 8 others.

When I speak of the coping mechanism which overwhelmed me I found inspiration in the ability of the parish to find hope in a seemingly hopeless situation.
When interviewed and giving their thoughts members remarked, "God never makes mistakes." And rather than have heavy hearts, they chose praise of His name and remembrance of their departed friends.

That is POWER to me, which I have recently learned is the ability to define phenomena and make it act in a desired manner.

The phenomena of death, and the ability to cope with pain are two things that I don't think will ever fully be defined or mastered by any individual. However, the ability to channel the emotions that result in the manner that these God-fearing people have is the epitome of INSPIRATION for me.

- Basquiat

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