ToP THiS: Tis The Season

December, a month a holiday cheer. No matter who you are, or what holiday you celebrate, we can all relate to the season of giving. Some give out gift in the hopes of getting one in return, while others give out of the kindness of their hearts. In this economy, and in life alone, giving can be costly. Receiving something we've want is nice, but honestly, the gift of spreading love means so much more. Here are some ways in which you can give this holiday season, and leave an imprint on someone's heart rather than your bank account.

Giving Out Gifts and Love at the Same Time
There are more blessings in giving than receiving. When you buy gifts or cards from charity organization, your money goes a long way. Not only do you get someone a gift, but your donation also goes to help someone in need.

Be a Role Model for Kids
It is a great way to educate little ones in understanding the concept of giving and helping others. Many times, children are too wrapped up in the "Xmas" rather than the "CHRISTmas". Be a living example of what the holiday season is all about and you will inspire children to want to be like you.


Where to get Charity Christmas Gifts
There are many charity organizations worldwide selling Christmas gift cards and Christmas presents. Some of them also have gift shops which allows you to spread your love while giving out a gift all year round. Most of them have direct posting service which helps you to direct the gifts directly to your friends or family Try working with a charity organization such as:

UNICEF has a long history in selling Christmas cards and in turn helping children in needs in more than 150 countries around the world. Besides Christmas cards, you can also find a wide assortment of Christmas gift ideas from toys, candle holders, stationeries, jewelry, to fair trade products. Not only in Christmas, you can also purchase these gifts as birthday gifts, corporate gifts or for any other purposes all year round.

You can also purpose 'Inspired Gifts' from UNICEF as Christmas presents. What you do is actually making an amount of donation which goes into a particular solid subject that helps kids, for instance, donating $20 to help providing clean water. UNICEF would send a card to your friend with your personal message along side with the gift detailed. This way you help children in need directly and at the same time allowing your family and friends to experience the pleasure of helping others.

UNICEF greeting cards are available at partner stores like Ikea while all other gifts and cards are available online. Please visit your national UNICEF website for further details.

Nothing to do on Christmas Day? Volunteer!
Head to a soup kitchen this holiday season and put a smile on someone's face. Volunteering is always a good thing, especially when it comes from the heart.

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eyeSee Hope for Us

In the wake of World AIDS Month there has been a medical breakthrough in HIV medicine. According to the huffingtonpost.com, doctors believe Timothy Ray-Brown, an HIV positive male known as the "Berlin patient", has been cured of HIV due to a stem cell transplant he received in 2007.

If this is true, genetically engineering stem cells will hopefully be the cure for AIDS. It has also been recently reported that HIV negative persons taking anti-retro virals given to HIV patients can reduce their risk of contracting the virus by 73%.

All of these new found medical developments has given hope to the 33 million people worldwide living with the virus and their loved ones.

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eyeInspire: Do It Afraid

"Do not fear, for I am with you; Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." - Isaiah 41:10

Fear is an emotion. Although there are times where fear seems so much greater than just a feeling, in all actuality, that's all it is. How many times can you recall when you let fear get the best of you, and prevent you from overcoming a challenge or doing something great in life? Personally, I can think of several occasions where I allowed fear to consume me instead of conquering it. After visiting youth night at Crenshaw Christian Center, I heard something that touched me and it was so simple; "Do it afraid".

I hear many people question the reason behind God placing challenges, roadblocks and struggles in our lives, but He's doing it for a reason! No matter how cliche that may sound, it's true. God doesn't want us to ignore our feelings of fear or doubt, but He wants to bring us through those fearful situations to show us that He was there and never left us. If we have faith and are fully committed to walking with God, then what do we really have to be afraid of? We're not perfect, nor are we machines, so these feelings are the things that make us human. When we are afraid, we can call on God, ask for His help, and continue on in faith knowing that He will bring us through yet another situation.


If you want to challenge yourself in the hopes of increasing your faith in God, go out on a limb and do something you've been afraid to do. Just because you say you'll do it doesn't mean that the fear will disappear, maybe it will, maybe it won't. But for some chance or reason, you still feel fearful, the do it afraid.

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WoooooRD Up!

impetrate

\ IM-pi-treyt \ , verb;

The definition: To entreat; ask for.

How to use it: With the holiday season right around the corner, I'm sure we're all looking for things to impetrate from our friends, family and significant others.

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eyeWatch: Young Flame's "Intuition"

Denzil "Young Flame" Porter has been hard at work pushing Aids Awareness! His song "Intuition" is geared towards spreading awareness on the issue of the HIV/AIDS epidemic, and encourage those out there to get tested and know their status. We commend Young Flame for taking on this great task, as he continues to put his artistry to good use by getting a message out that needs to be heard by the world. As you watch the video and listen to the record, you'll see how the "Mind boggling story of how non-communication and intuition" unfolds. The video was directed by Fionia Amara & Jaison Williams. Take a look at it, share it, and be sure to leave a comment! Happy watching.


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eyeLike My Trench Studded

The basic trench coat comes in many variations. It is often duplicated and replicated by many designers, and sold by some of the most affordable stores such as Target, Marshalls and TJ Maxx.

There doesn't seem like much you can do to a khaki trench coat, especially if you're Burberry and have many forms of the classic silhouette. But they've done it again, only this time with STUDS!
The Burberry Studded Garbadine Trench Coat is hot! It's a statement jacket that probably won't keep you as warm as it should be, but at least you'll be cute wearing it! This coat will put a $2700 dent in your wallet. Do you think it's worth it? Let us know what you think!

Buy this coat now

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Gifted Bloggers: TLB


Blogging: A universal form of writing where people share their thoughts, opinions, photos, videos, etc. for the world to see. Some blog about music, relationships, and food, while others may choose to use their blog as a form of an open diary. Whatever your cup of tea is when it comes to blogging, you stumble upon your favorite blogs once you enter into the blogosphere. One blogger that I find to be gifted in what she does is The Lady Blogga.

The Lady Blogga is currently gearing up to release of her book, “The Little Things We Learn In Life” ; which is a 3 book series that focuses on three important aspects of life…“the Heart”, “the Grind”, “the Fam”. Book 1, “the Heart” is due out next month. ”the Heart” takes the reader on a myriad of journeys through various relationships. Relationships that are affected by some of the same things that are dealt with in real life. Mistresses, occupations, Social Networking… But it also gives the other side. Love, Happiness, Togetherness. The objective behind the book is to help the reader see beyond their own situation (thaladyblogga.com).


Other than preparing herself for becoming a published writer with a book on the shelves of your favorite bookstores (and hopefully, the New York Times Best-Sellers list), she's not afraid to speak her mind! Don't believe me?

Check out the blog for yourself and read "What She Said"

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eyesInDaSpot: Midnight Madness, RECAP!

We kicked off the first weekend of December by hosting Midnight Madness: Eric Sosa & the Oxymorrons Live ft. Ayindé. The event took place on the campus of SUNY College at Oneonta at the Hunt Union Waterfront Café. We hosted the performances, and they were great; the best I've ever seen these guys perform before! The ladies and gents loved them, the energy was there and on a 10. Once we finished with the performance portion, DJ Omar & DJ S.Whit transitioned the rest of the night into party mode, and we're sure you can use your imaginations with that one. Overall the event was a success! Take a look at some photos from the event below...


[DANiE & ♥ t i f f a n y, Ayindé, Eric Sosa, Oxymorrons]

Click here for more photos from Midnight Madness by HorQet

Special thank yous go out to: Sosa Management Corp., Oxymorrons, Imperial Marketing Group, the Multicultural Student Council at SUCO, Vandell Photography, HorQet Photography, WONY 90.9FM, DJ Ten, DJ S.Whit, DJ Omar, Ryan Faussette, Nastasia Thompson, Steve Jenkins, Ayindé, Eric Sosa, and the Oxymorrons.

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eyeInspire: Use Your Gifts

We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us…” - Romans 12:6, NIV

It's the most wonderful time of the year, and as some respectively put it, it's the season of giving. You don't have to wait for December to get a gift, God has given each of us gifts. He’s also given us the grace, the supernatural power to operate in those gifts. In other words, if God has called you to do something, He has equipped you by His grace.

Scripture says that His yoke is easy and His burden is light (Matthew 11:30). That means when we are doing what we are called to do, when we are operating in our gift, there will be an “easiness” about it. That doesn’t mean there won’t be any opposition. It doesn’t mean there won’t be obstacles or that it won’t take effort on your part. But what it does mean is that we will have a supernatural empowerment to do it. It will just come naturally and flow out of you.


If you are doing something that always seems hard, always seems heavy and drains the energy out of you, you might want to spend some time in prayer before God and see if that’s really what He has for you. Just because it’s a “good” thing doesn’t mean it’s a “God” thing. But when it is God, you’ll know it. Sometimes we may wonder how we're supposed to know, how will we know it's coming from God? Remember, everything that comes from God is good and perfect. You’ll feel His supernatural grace empowering you and refreshing you every step of the way.

When you pray today, ask God to empower you to live by His grace. Ask Him to help you to discern what He has for you, and to let go of anything that isn’t His best for my life. God wants nothing but the best for us, so make sure you believe that and He will continue to bless you and enrich your gifts.

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Eye luV a Gud MeaL!


Hey Bizzybodies!

Feeling under the weather? Well here's a scrumptious meal I wanted to send your way courtesy of Food Network chefs, Partrick & Gina Neely. If a runny nose and cough is keeping you in this weekend, their classic "Mama Jean's Chicken Noodle Soup" may do the trick!


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And ANTM is... Ann!

The cycle 15 winner of America's Next Top Model is Ann the season's underdog from Dallas. Ann's win shocked most of the show's fans on the Dec 1st finale due to the fact that she was looked up as the quirky one with her super skinny, tall physique, gap teeth and shy personality.

Ann's awkwardness was especially noticeable next to the runner up Chelsey, who was the girl next door and every one's pick to win. Ann will receive a spread in Vogue Italia, a spread and cover in Beauty in Vogue, along with a feature in vogue.it. She will also receive a contract with IMG models and a $100,000 contract with Cover Girl cosmetics. Ann's win has reinforced the idea of embracing your differences and reminded us that its cool and beautiful to be different. I'll be looking forward to seeing the underdog grace magazine covers, what about you?

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eyewatch myHealth: Anorexia Nervosa

Fat, big pig, quick-sweat roundhouse, porky-looking slob blob couch potato is what 1% of the nation who suffer from anorexia nervosa see in their reflection when they look in a mirror. Not a big deal if the number is low right? Well did I also mention that number is growing?


Though some statistics have shown that 50% of girls in their mid-teens feel they are overweight, and over 60% diet, unfortunately, it is hard to determine more because so many people hide it.


Whether you are white, black, yellow, or blue, male, female, Hindu or Christian, you are not exempt from fearing the thought of gaining weight, obsessively exercising or dieting, and starving yourself. Thus, resulting in the life-threatening disease that can harm your body.


Without proper treatment, anorexia nervosa can lead to depression, phobias, panic attacks, post-tramatic stress, substance abuse, and even death.


There are many forms of treatment, including seeing a physician, receiving support from loved ones, and going to therapy. You may also consider these options.


Do you know someone who is struggling with this? Have you felt like it may be time for a change in how you view yourself?


Drop a Buzz.


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Source: Health.com, Mirror-Mirror, WebMD
Pic: whatthehealthmag.wordpress.com

*I am not a physican or health professional. This information does not replace the advice of a doctor. By reading this you understand you release elleELLEeye from any warranty or liability for your use of this information. We are a blog created to spread love, live life and inspire readers to help themselves and others.
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Happy World Aids Day

Did you know today, DECEMBER 1st, is WORLD AIDS DAY?

According to UNAIDS estimates, there are now 33.3 million people living with HIV, including 2.5 million children and during 2009 some 2.6 million people became newly infected with the virus and an estimated 1.8 million people died from AIDS.

Just in case you might have missed it, check out how Young Flame spreads awareness in our recent post
HERE

This is nothing to take lightly, please get tested!
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eyeIntroduce to You, D.O.S.

How do you define success? Looking for an example? I can give you two; Young Nyse and McFly. These artists make up the Rap/Electro-Hop duo, D.O.S. (Definition Of Success). Not only is their name inspiring, but they are living examples of what success is. Currently a part of the Freshman 15 Entertainment/TrackTeam Records Camp, D.O.S. are two young black men making it out of the South Bronx with college educations, and a positive outlook on life. They are focused on making music, all the while pursuing a career in the music industry. D.O.S. proves that their inspiration comes from living, and say that they are inspired by any and everything.
Musically we draw from artist we grew up listening to constantly. Of course Biggie & Jay-Z, but also different music like Morris Day and the Time, Prince, Ready for the World, Run DMC, Kurtis Blow, Sheila E. etc. Today, we feel the biggest dudes doing it are Jay-Z, Drake, Lil Wayne, Fabolous, Big Sean, Kanye, on the Rap side and on the Electro-Hop side Far East Movement, N.E.R.D., Akon, David Guetta, LMFAO. - (D.O.S.)

We've known the Bronx to breed some of the hardest records in Hip-Hop, but D.O.S. wants to introduce the BX to a new sound with their debut single “Sing All Night (Marscruiser Remix)”. The song features lyrics by D.O.S. alongside production from Paul "Marscruiser" Determan. Check out the the video below that was directed by Tara Maloney. Happy watching (FYI: Explicit Lyrical Content)!



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eyeReview: Pink FRIDAY

The "Moment 4 Life" for the self-proclaimed Harajuku Barbie, Nicki Minaj, has arrived. The release of her debut album, Pink Friday has hit stores and is sure to cause mayhem in the music industry. It's no secret that almost everyone has mixed feelings about Nicki, whether its over her character, her kookiness, or her lyrical content. Truth is, the young lady is good at what she does, and since music is a form of expression I personally feel that she's entitled to present herself in whatever manner she feels appropriate for herself.

With all of that being said, I've listen to the album and will give her 4.5/5 eyes!
The lyrical content is there, the punchlines, the hooks, the versatility, the story, and the element of Rap and Hip-Hop. You can hear her growth and development now from the time of her mix-tapes days. If I had to pick one, my favorite track would have to be "Fly" featuring Rihanna. Other tracks that I can listen to over and over (not including those released as singles) are: "Here I Am", "Moment 4 Life" - I believe that life is a prize, but to live doesn’t mean you’re alive...And this very moment I’m king, this very moment I slay Goliath with a sling. I wish that I could have this moment for life...'cause in this moment I just feel so alive. - and "I'm the Best". Other featuring on the album include Natasha Bedingfield, Kanye West, Drake and Will.I.Am. Overall, it is a good album that I could listen to from start to finish. Kudos to Nicki, her hater, supporters, and everyone involved in this project.

In the words of Rihanna in "Fly": I came to win, to fight, to conquer to thrive. I came to win, to survive, to prosper, to rise...To FLY! Listen to "Fly" now, happy listening!


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Trend Check: The New Puritan

Fashion: Ever-changing, recycled, reused, innovative, and expressed through new trends. What is it now? As TopShop has so eloquently put it, we'll call this one "The New Puritan". Styled with its razor sharp tailoring in black, white and red - alongside a decadent touch of stand-out pieces in velvet and leather - it's simply a good look!

Ladies, take your wardrobe to new heights by stepping away from the burgundy and forest green of the fall, and go back to the the basic black and white pallet! Add a bold pop of red alongside some metal pieces, heels or high boots - and bridge the gap between edginess and femininity and you're set!. Take a look at some of the pulls from the TopShop look book and shop for your favorites at www.TopShop.com!



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eyeAsk: Who Encourages The Encouragers?



Between talking to friends, studying the issue and finding answers/solutions, I still feel compelled to hear, read and/or see what you think about this:

eyeAsk: Who encourages the encouragers? Who is supposed to lead the leaders? Who heals the healer? Who inspires the inspiring?
 

Some may say God, other may say each others - truth is, both are correct. There are so many answers that one can come up with, but I'm interested in hearing what you have to say. I'll answer in a comment as you should as well!


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Basketball Wives, Season 2

I guess the "Basketball Wives" can say they're doing something now that they are gearing up for the second season of their reality show. In a world of "One hit wonders" and show cancellations, being able to withstand and satisfy the audience is paramount. We can only anticipate the gossip, the drama and the to come. The has some familiar faces; Shaunie O’Neal, Jennifer Williams, Royce Reed, Evelyn Lozada, Suzie Ketcham and Gloria Govan. They will be joined by new cast members Tami Roman (also of MTV's "Real World: Los Angeles Season 2"), Juli Richmond, Kimberli Russell, and Ashley Walker. The Show will air December 12th at 9pm on VH1, will you be watching? Check out the trailer:



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Eyes In the Spot: Midnight Madness!

Wherever you are in the world, it would be ideal for you to be at SUNY College at Oneonta on Saturday, December 4th for...


Eric Sosa and the Oxymorrons are on tour and making a stop at SUNY College at Oneonta II Hunt Union Waterfront Café II 138 Ravine Pkwy Oneonta, NY 13820 II
Saturday, Dec. 4, 2010 II Doors Open at 11:30pm II Festivities from 12am-3am II $3 ALL NIGHT LONG!

Live performances by Eric Sosa x Oxymorrons featuring Ayindé
Hosted by: elleELLEeye, yes US!

Sponsored by: Office of Multicultural Student Affairs, Center for Multicultural Experiences, Multicultural Student Council (ALS, CHI UPSILON SIGMA, CSA, FREQUENCY, FOR THE FELLA, HILLEL, HOLA, ISO, MSA, OMU, SCC, SGE, VOS, & the AALANA MENTOR PROGRAM)
www.ericsosa.com II www.geeklife.me II Ayindé Music II

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2010 AMAs

The 38th installment of the American Music Awards will broadcast live from the NOKIA Theatre L.A. LIVE on Sunday, November 21, at 8 p.m. EST on ABC. This year’s presenters include Trey Songz, Christina Milian, John Legend, Keri Hilson, Mike Posner, Natasha Bedingfield, Seal, and Taio Cruz, plus some surprise guests.

Rihanna will open the 38th annual show, including other performances by Usher, Christina Aguilera, Katy Perry, Pink, Diddy-Dirty Money, Ne-Yo, the Black Eyed Peas, Justin Bieber, Ke$ha, Kid Rock, and more. Will you be watching?

Take a look at this year's nominees:

Favorite Male Artist, Pop or Rock
Justin Bieber
Eminem
Usher

Favorite Female Artist, Pop or Rock
Ke$ha
Lady Gaga
Katy Perry

Favorite Band, Duo or Group, Pop or Rock
The Black Eyed Peas
Lady Antebellum
Train

Favorite Album, Pop or Rock
Justin Bieber - My World 2.0
Eminem - Recovery
Katy Perry - Teenage Dream

Favorite Male Artist, Country
Jason Aldean
Luke Bryan
Brad Paisley

Favorite Female Artist, Country
Miranda Lambert
Taylor Swift
Carrie Underwood

Favorite Band, Duo or Group, Country
Zac Brown Band
Lady Antebellum
Rascal Flatts

Favorite Album, Country
Jason Aldean - Wide Open
Lady Antebellum - Need You Now
Carrie Underwood - Play On

Favorite Male Artist, Rap/Hip-Hop
B.o.B.
Drake
Eminem

Favorite Album, Rap/Hip-Hop
B.o.B. - B.o.B. Presents
Drake - Thank Me Later
Eminem - Recovery

Favorite Male Artist - Soul/R&B
Chris Brown
Trey Songz
Usher

Favorite Female Artist - Soul/R&B
Alicia Keys
Rihanna
Sade

Favorite Album, Soul/R&B
Alicia Keys - The Element of Freedom
Sade - Soldier of Love
Usher - Raymond v. Raymond

Favorite Album, Soundtracks
AC/DC - Iron Man 2
Glee: The Music, Volume 3 Showstoppers
The Twilight Saga: Eclipse

Favorite Artist, Alternative Rock Music
Muse
Phoenix
Vampire Weekend

Favorite Artist, Adult Contemporary Music
Michael Bublé
Lady Antebellum
Train

Favorite Artist, Latin Music
Daddy Yankee
Enrique Iglesias
Shakira

Favorite Artist, Contemporary Inspirational
Casting Crowns
MercyMe
TobyMac

Artist of the Year
Justin Bieber
Eminem
Ke$ha
Lady Gaga
Katy Perry

T-Mobile Breakthrough Artist Nominations
B.o.B
Justin Bieber
Taio Cruz
Jason Derülo
Ke$ha
Lady Antebellum
Travie McCoy
Mike Posner

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WoRD UP!

fulsome

\ FUL-sum \ , adjective;

What does fulsome mean? Sickening or excessive behavior

Still don't get it? Let me break it down: When people get tired, what do they do? Go to sleep right? Well, some of us engage in fulsome activities. For instance, nagging their friends, or laughing excessively at not so funny jokes.

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Return to Substance with 'Winnie'

What happened those good ole good black films? You know the ones I'm talking about, those of a classic/powerful nature. Where are the movies like Waiting to Exhale, The Best Man, Soul Food, Brown Sugar, Ali, Above the Rim, and Malcolm X, where are those movies that told our story in so many variations? Now I would be remiss if I didn't give credit where credit is due. Tyler Perry has done his part to carry the torch lit by the likes of Melvin Van Peebles, The Hughes Brothers, and John Singleton. And now, Darrell James Roodt is honoring Winnie Mandela.


It is up to us to inspire the creative minds amongst us, and support those who share their energy with us. This is where initiative comes to fruition, and legacy can be maintained. Similar to the story of one of the most recognizable and influential black women in history.
Based on the relationship of Winnie and Nelson Mandela; starring Jennifer Hudson and Terrence Howard, Winnie focuses on the untold story of Winnie Mandela. There is no release date has been set as of yet. Check out the trailer for the biographical film, 'Winnie':



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FASHiON FiGHT with LOVE

Jennifer Lopez vs. Taylor Swift

These two ladies are fighting to let us know who the Queen of hearts is! The American Idol judge, Jennifer Lopez, was spotted wearing the Wildfox Couture sweatshirt while shopping in Miami Beach. Taylor Swift stepped out in NYC to get ready to perform at Target for promotion of her new album. Taylor sported her WF sweatshirt with a pair of blue skinny jeans and white Keds. J. Lo paired up her look a pair of black leggings and some black ballet flats. Our question to you is...






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Two Days We Should Not Worry

We've all heard the saying "Life it too short", and when we think about it, it is. There's but only so much time in a day and if I could make a suggestion, it would be for us not to spend one minute of it worrying. Worry is something that robs us of our life. It is wasted time and energy. So here's to not worry, with an inspirational poem. Happy reading!

There are two days in every week, about which we should not worry,
two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension.
One of these days is Yesterday with all its mistakes and cares,
its faults and blunders, its aches and pains.


Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control.
All the money in the world cannot bring back Yesterday.
We cannot undo a single act we performed;
we cannot erase a single word we said.
Yesterday is gone forever.


The other day we should not worry about is Tomorrow
with all its possible adversities, its burdens,
its large promise and its poor performance;
Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control.


Tomorrow's sun will rise,
either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds, but it will rise.
Until it does, we have no stake in Tomorrow,
for it is yet to be born.


This leaves only one day, Today.
Any person can fight the battle of just one day.
It is when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternities
Yesterday and Tomorrow that we break down.


It is not the experience of Today that drives a person mad,
it is the remorse or bitterness of something which happened Yesterday
and the dread of what Tomorrow may bring.
Let us, therefore, live but one day at a time.


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eyeWatch: "What's My Name"

We all know her name, and though past events may have silenced her for a bit, but there's no doubt about it that Rihanna is back, and LOUD! Her new record is in stores now and she has been releasing videos left and right. One of my personal favorites off her fifth studio album is her collaboration with Drake, "What's My Name". The video is simple, fun, and reminded me of the Rihanna we met nearly 5 years ago. She was very likable and personable in showing the cute/laid-back side of a "relationship" and everything was easy, breezy and carefree. The styling in the video was great and the NYC Central Park vibe just added to everything else you needed in the video. The song was produced by StarGate and the video was directed by Philip Andelman. We have the brand new video for your enjoyment, so enjoy it! Happy watching.


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Good Morning Love (Love)

There's nothing better than listening to a song that can put you in the exact mood you were looking for. Today, for me, that song is "Love Love" by Ayindé. The song comes off of his first project, No Slices and was produced by himself and Mark Rajcoomar. If you have yet to download that mixtape, you're definitely missing out. Here's a little taste of my morning tunes...Happy listening!



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eyeLoved: Black Girls Rock!

On November 7, 2010, BET aired BLACK GIRLS ROCK! Hosted by actress Nia Long, the show highlighted the lives of black girls and women making a difference. Black Girls Rock! Inc. is a non-profit youth empowerment and mentoring organization established to promote the arts for young women of color, as well as to encourage dialogue and analysis of the ways women of color are portrayed in the media. Founder of BGR, Beverly Bond and BET executive, Deborah Lee did a great job in putting together a wonderful and inspiring event.

The show featured "M.A.D. Black Girl Who Rock", which included you're average girls that made a difference in their community by their work, volunteering and advocay. Celebrity honorees included: Raven Symoné, Missy Elliot, Ruby Dee, Keke Palmer, Iyania Vanzant, General Marcelite J. Harris, and Teresa Clark. Performers included: Jill Scott, Shontelle, Keri Hilson, Keyshia Cole, Kelly Price, Ledisi, Marsha Ambrosius and Fantasia Barrino.


Since 2006, BLACK GIRLS ROCK! has been dedicated to the healthy development of young women and girls. BLACK GIRLS ROCK! seeks to build the self-esteem and self-worth of young women of color by changing their outlook on life, broadening their horizons, and helping them to empower themselves. For the past four years, we have enjoyed the opportunity to enrich the lives of girls aged 12 to 17 years old through mentorship, arts education, cultural exploration and public service. At BLACK GIRLS ROCK!, young women are offered access to enrichment programs and opportunities that place special emphasis on personal development through the arts and cooperative learning.

By speaking to the next generation in their formative years about issues of self-worth, goals, and aspirations, the organization reinforces the message that young women need not objectify themselves or relinquish their autonomy. BLACK GIRLS ROCK! has boldly taken on the crisis of our female youth of color here in America head on and understands the need for positive self-images and a strong sense of awareness. WE SEE SOLUTIONS (
blackgirlsrockinc.com).

"If you're lucky, you find out who you are before you find out what you want to become." - Ruby Dee


Here's part one of the show...

Watch the rest of the show here

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eyeInspire: Change Your Focus

Set your mind on things above, not on earthly things” - 1 Thessalonians 4:12, NIV

When others look at your life, what do they see? Does your daily life win the respect of others? As believers, we are Christ’s representatives in the earth. We are called to a higher standard. The way we live our lives should bring glory to God the Father.

Notice this verse doesn’t say, “Go out of your way to do something major so that everyone will respect you.” It doesn’t say, “Win a gold medal or Pulitzer prize so that people will glorify your Father in heaven.” No, it says that your daily life should win the respect of others. That simply means always taking the high road and living a life of excellence. It means doing the right thing even when no one is looking. It means finding common ground in order to be a peacemaker. It means going out with an attitude of faith and thanksgiving.

Remember, you will become like whoever you spend the most time with.

If you are committed to spending time with God the Father everyday, you’ll develop His character. You’ll win the respect of outsiders and bring glory to your Father in heaven!

A prayer: Father God, I dedicate every area of my mind, will, and emotions to You today. Help me live my daily life as an example of You. Show me anything in my life that is displeasing to You. Let my daily life win the respect of others and let everything I do bring glory to You. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

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eyeListen: "Major Moves" & "Interesting Encounter"

If you've been wondering where the new fix of music is from some of the most talented unsigned artists - look no further. Oxymorrons, Eric Sosa, Indigo, and Ayindé - if you know elleELLEeye, you've heard these names before. We all know artists out there grinding, but these fellas are making "Major Moves". It's been a minute since Ayindé has released new music (he discusses the reasons why in his recent video), but him and Indigo have been working on a project with Tru Statement Entertainment - Ayindigo. The first single off of the project has been released and it is entitled, "Major Moves".



Download Ayindigo's "Major Moves"

Next up we have Eric Sosa and the Oxymorrons with their Halloween released record, "Interesting Encounter". Produced by Sonic Relief & Ony of The Oxymorrons, the track has an interesting sound to it and the flare of the artists on it. Happy listening!



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eyeApplaud: Thurgood Marshall College Fund

Support us and we shall grow; especially in times like these when our voices being heard is necessary. Considering the changes that may loom on the political front, its imperative that we support and promote progress and philanthropy. The Thurgood Marshall College Fund epitomizes that. The philanthropy was founded more than 20 years ago, with the objective of providing assistance to people attending the 47 Historical Black Colleges and Law Schools nationwide. The fund held its 23rd Annual Awards Dinner recently in New York City. The event featured the Guest of Honor Patti Labelle, co-hosts Anthony Anderson and Nicey Nash, Anika Noni Rose, Laura Izibor, and more.




- Basquiat

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ToP THIS: Dealing With a Break-Up

Who loves relationship break-ups? Anyone? Yeah, I didn't think so. As much as we might not like them, the fact is that break-ups are a part of reality. Browsing the web, we found some awesome tips from sheknows.com for the women out there. We'll share them with you and, of course, add our elleELLEeye flare.

She says:
REDIRECT YOUR NEGATIVE ENERGY
Trade male bashing for some sweating -- we mean glistening, for us ladies...
We say:
Exercise not only stimulates your body, making it feel better, but you will soon see the benefits of your hard work. This will turn that messy break up into a new reason to go shopping :)


She says:
TAKE TIME FOR EXTREME SELF CARE
People tend to beat themselves up after a breakup, says Heidi Frei, life coach of Heidi Frei Coaching & Consulting...

We say:
Listen, what happened, happened! You can't change the past. All you can do is reflect on what happened, and work on how you will make things better the next time you're in a relationship (and trust me, there will be a "next time").


She says:
LISTEN TO YOURSELF
Frei notes one of the biggest problems women have after a breakup is not putting themselves first. To resolve this unsettled feeling, she recommends beginning a journal...
We say:
Not only can this journal give you a chance to get out all the feelings you might have had bottled up during the relationship (as She mentions later in the blurb), but when you write down your true feelings, you can keep them as a reminder of WHY the relationship is over. This will help you from slipping into the "sick cycle" of breaking up and making up.

She says:
TREAT YOURSELF LIKE A KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOR WOULD
If you can't treat yourself with love, how will someone else? Frei says it's important to "treat yourself like you want your ideal partner to treat you." ...
We say:
Enough said!


She says:
REDISCOVER YOURSELF
Relationships are often filled with many compromises. Create a vision board: cut out pictures and words from magazines that are meaningful to you in a relationship, (or print your own) and paste them to a poster board. This constant visual reminder will fill your mind with positive energy and remind you what can be achieved each day.
We say: Sometimes when you're "caught up" in a relationship, you forget exactly what it is you said you wouldn't stand for. "Write the vision and make it plain". We encourage you to always keep this board up as a reminder while you're in your next relationship.

She says
TAKE TIME TO GRIEVE AND START WITH A CLEAN SLATE
People heal at different paces. Allow yourself time to feel, cry. "Clear up reminders," says Frei, by purging things in your living space that remind you of the person. Don't get involved in a new relationship too quickly, which may transfer feelings from your old relationship to the new one...
We say:
And as you grieve (because break-ups are a loss) be mindful that there becomes a thin line between getting your feelings out and a pitty party. Feel! Let it all out and then get active. Even if you don't feel like it, getting active is the best way to avoid depression. Spending some time with GOOD friends and family also help. So please take time to grieve, but please be healthy as you do so.

She says:
ENRICH OTHERS THROUGH VOLUNTEERING
Volunteering is a great way to achieve self-actualization while helping others. You may not feel like volunteering. Regardless, Dr. Trent believes "actions dictate feelings, not the reverse. When we begin to take actions that are positive...that generates positive feelings. Not the opposite."...
We say:
Volunteer, help a friend, help a family member, just put yourself out there to spread love
.

Have any experience with some of these tips
or have any other tips you want to share?


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DASH NYC

119 Spring street is the address of the NYC chapter of the Kardashian boutique, DASH. The Kardashian women, (Kimberly, Khloe, Kourtney) are at it again. Their first foreign venture for their boutique started in Miami, and now NYC has its very own. Do you think this store will be another success? Are you excited about the store's grand opening? Will you be shopping at DASH?!

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Word Up

Malarkey
Noun
məˈlärkē

Next time you're listening to your friend tell you a story that you know is a lie, cut him/her off and just say "This sounds like a bunch of malarkey!"

Malarkey: Meaningless talk; nonsense

Use it. Define it. Word Up

Deuces,
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eyeWatch: The Miss-Education of a Barbie

The greatest thing about being HUMAN, is being able to have an opinion, a voice. Jasmine Mans is a young lady no different from the rest of us, but she does have a way with words. When playing the game of "Truth or Dare", many of us opt for the easy way out and say "truth"; while some are brave enough to take on a challenge. I'll say that Miss Mans knocked out two birds with one poem on the topic of Nicki Minaj and her "Barbiefication". The Miss-Education of a Barbie" is a call to action not only for Nicki Minaj but, to all women in the entertainment industry. Jasmine says: I do not want Nicki Minaj to be the next Lauryn Hill or MC Lyte, I want her to rap as if women like Assata Shakur and Toni Morrison exist. The "Miss-Education of a Barbie" questions the message that Nicki Minaj is relaying to her listeners. If Nicki Minaj seeks to simply entertain audiences with shallow concepts then my poem can be written off as irrelevant to her and her fans alike. However, if she seeks to make a difference in musical history and in the lives of her fans around the world then my piece questions her methods of doing so.

Jasmine goes on to say, My poem targets Nicki Minaj because I am a long time fan and follower of her work. I recognize and applaud her lyrical abilities and the affect she has on women older and younger than myself. If we, as an audience, do not hold up a mirror to our artists, then who will? Her "Barbie" image is an objectification of womanhood. How can we expect our male rappers to pay homage and respect to women when the voice that is representing us is tainted with sexual innuendos and “child’s play?”. W.E.B. DuBois said all art is propaganda and should be used to uplift and challenge the African American community, and if art does not do such it is useless. Nicki Minaj is too powerful to be useless. I dare Nicki Minaj to be a PHENOMENAL WOMAN and not a phenomenal "Barbie." Take a look at Jasmine's performance of "The Miss-Education of a Barbie". Happy watching!


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