eyeAsk: Selfish or Selfless?

When it comes to being you, there's a lot that goes into the job. You have to maintain your physical appearance, your sanity, your health, your money, your family, your job, your friends, your...wait - in essence family, work, and friends aren't thing you HAVE to worry about. So when you don't, is that being selfish? Let's say you do care, and you give to others more than you tend to yourself; is there enough leftover for you? Some people put themselves on the back burner, and are generally selfless.

eyeAsk, is there a happy medium between selfishness and being selfless?

Sure there is. We just have to create the balance. This may be a challenge, but the most challenging part is the people we surround ourselves with.
If these people are selfish, they won't care if they occupy your time or ruin your plans, because as long as they're taken care of, that's all that matters. It's okay to be selfless, but make sure you don't become a pushover and submissive to others. Take care of you, and then take care of others. What good are you if you're a mess trying to help out the next person?

Matthew 5:42 says, "Give to the one who asks you, and do not reject the one who wants to borrow from you." That's called being selfless. "Instead of being motivated by selfish ambition or vanity, each of you should, in humility, be moved to treat one another as more important than yourself." - Philippians 2:3 NET

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eyeWatch: "The Reasons"

Following our awesome event, The Sweet Sound of Hip-Hop, it became apparent that many of our readers, and the audience was feeling Young Flame. He's got the lyrics, the presence and the message in his music. Off of his latest mixtape Live From The Other Side, hosted by DJ Asylum, comes "The Reasons". It's a great song, with a great feel, and the official video is just as good. The track was produced By Claws (clawsbeats.com) and the video was directed By Jaison Bourne, Mugzy Mcfly & Young Flame. Happy watching!


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Download "Live From the Other Side" on youngflamemusic.com

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TOP THiS: M'eye' Endless Love

It's easy to find sexual ways to rekindle your relationship, but sex isn't everything... right?
In this TOP THiS, I'll give you some of the top ways to maintain your endless love without getting freaky


Get Spiritual: There's something about having a spiritual connection with your partner that makes the heart grow fonder. Whether it's reading a bible together, jamming out to your favorite song or having a deep conversation about God, life and love, strengthening your spiritual bond will do wonders for your endless love.


Spend time apart: How ironic is it that spending time apart will help your endless love life? Everyone knows it, but how many people believe it? The more time your are around your partner, the less time you spend thinking about him/her and the more time you spend getting annoyed at little things. In the beginning you might want to spend every moment together, but slow down, it will eventually get old and lead to "now what?"

Forgive and Forget: Let the past stay in the past. If you decided to forgive your partner, its not fair to bring it up later. If you do bring it up, that means you haven't fully forgiven him/her. That ultimately means you are harboring resentment and how can love grow in such harsh environments?!


Make New Memories: Movies and dinner are alright if that's your thing, but let's throw caution to the wind and try something crazy, something new, something unheard of to you and your partner. Take a dance class together, volunteer at an animal hospital, go on a nature walk. I DON'T KNOW! Just keep it new and fresh. You both might be apprehensive at first but the experience could turn out to be something you both loved... or hated. Either way its a new memory and a stronger bond.


Don't take your partner for granted: Easier said than done huh? Show your partner that you appreciate him/her. Leave a little note in his/her coat pocket so when s/he least expects s/he'll find a little loving. Any little way you can show you care, go for it. It's one thing to know you are appreciated, but its another thing to feel appreciated.

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DANiE
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WoRD UP!


ACCEDE

The next time you have a conversation with someone and you agree with a point that was made, say "I accede"!



Accede is a verb that simply means to agree.



Sound smart, Be smart... WoRD UP!
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Haute or Hate It: Little Red Rihanna

If there's any celebrity talked about more for their hair and fashion sense, opposed to their actual talent, it's Rihanna! There's no doubt about it that her style is to be reckoned with, and that she can do just about anything to her hair or wardrobe and look fabulous. But we're not so sure about this one. We embraced the fiery red short hairdo, but what do you all think about this one? No too sure it's a few tracks put in, a wig, or what, but it's red, and it's longer than it was before. So, tell us how you feel about it. Haute or Hate It?!



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eyePod: "Electric Relaxation" Style-For-Free

Ayindé is back at it. This time around he's brought his whit, charm, and lyrical greatness to his "Electric Relaxation (Style-For-Free)". The original track is a classic, and for him to take it on says a lot. But needless to say, he caught my attention from the first bar - "Hey! I got it hakuna matata. LME put that in your medulla oblongata." Ayindé gave one of his most supportive fans, Serenity ( visit Sou1 Food For Thought), the opportunity to have the first listen/download of the track. Now it's your turn to hear it. Happy listening!

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JuNK FOOD: TIny Troubled Triangles

Its been a while since we've fed you any and what better time than to indulge than today? There's been a few things going on in the entertainment world, and today we've got two treats for you. Ready? Enjoy...
T.I. & Tiny Arrested


TI and his wife Tiny were pulled over in Los Angeles on a routine traffic stop and the police smelled MARIJUANA in the car. After searching the car, police found an UNSPECIFIED OTHER DRUG in the car.


According to TMZ, TI and Tiny were both placed under ARREST, and as of this morning, were awaiting bail. MediaTakeOut.com can report that rapper TI has almost 3 YEARS LEFT on his probation. If he is found GUILTY of this offense (a violation), he could go to jail for 3 MORE YEARS! They have 5 CHILDREN and a successful entertainment career, It's just a SHAME!

Kanye Trying to Steal Selita From Maxwell

There may be some beef in the music world between rapper Kanye West and R&B singer Maxwell. Why? According to a source close to Maxwell, the R&B singer and model Selita Banks have been dating fairly seriously for almost six months. The insider explained, "They were trying to keep it out of the public because they wanted it to last...they really cared for each other."

Well that's where rapper Kanye West comes in. The insider explains, "Kanye and Selita were sneaking around behind Maxwell's back. This is crazy because they were all friends. For Ye to do that is beyond grimey." And the insider adds, "He'll get his though, Maxwell is no punk."

Remember this is the VERY SAME thing Kanye did with Kim Kardashian, while she was with Reggie Bush. DANG!!!(Mediatakeout)



Need more? That's all the junk you're getting from us! But mediatakeout will keep you entertained in that area.

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Meet Mr. Personality, Lew Static

The year of 1996 marked a time period of some of the greatest moments in Hip-Hop; Jay-Z Reasonable Doubt, Tupac's All Eyez on Me and Notorious B.I.G's reign on the Hip-Hop charts. Aside from the Hip-Hop heavy hitters, you can't fail to mention the grind of those trying to make it. Lew Static, an up and coming Hip-Hop artist has been on the come up since '96. At the tender age of 9 he made it a priority to learn the business behind the music industry. His mind is set on letting the world know that there is talent in Delaware. With his animated style and catchy lyrics, he definitely will be someone to watch out for. Once he makes it, he plans on giving back by starting his own mentoring group for the youth. We sat down with Lewis for an interview to find out what inspires him, how he feels about the current state of Hip-Hop, and what to expect from him in the future.

elleELLEeye: For the people out there who don't know you, sum up who Lew Static is.
Lew Static: Hopefully the face of Hip-Hop.
Someone bringing simplicity and bringing hip-hop back to its essence. I’m not about flashiness; I'm about the art and skill.

elleELLEeye: When did you realize you wanted to be a musician?
Lew Static: Early. When I was 6 years old, back in 96’. After school I would go to my mother’s studio sessions, so it was inevitable.

elleELLEeye: How long have you been submerged into hip-hop, chasing your dream?
Lew Static: I’ve been in music since 96’ but I started chasing… Well I started producing when I was 13. I started engineering when I was 16 and my first project was in November 2008.


elleELLEeye: Where do you find the inspiration for your music?
Lew Static: Life. What I see on a day-to-day basis. What happens tomorrow is influenced by what happens today.

elleELLEeye: How do you feel about the current state of Hip-Hop?
Lew Static: A couple years ago I would have said Hip-Hop is trash. But now, I believe as long as it is relevant, it’s good. Their [hip-hop artists] craft is their craft.

elleELLEeye: Everyone is an aspiring something. There are a number of rappers and musician who feel that they are the best at what they do. What makes Lew Static different?
Lew Static: I study this! A lot of people get up and just want to rap. I know what 16bars is etc. But I also understand the art of the business. The art isn’t in the music, it’s in the business. I have to be in touch with the business. I might not have the best lyrics, they’ll always be someone better, but I have a solid foundation.

elleELLEeye: If you could collaborate with one artist, who would it be and why?
Lew Static: [thinking] A commercial artist? Who would I benefit from business-wise? I would have to say Eminem. He’s a commercial success and he brings the art of lyrics back to Hip-Hop.

elleELLEeye: When you make it big, how will you give back?
Lew Static: Giving back runs through my mind on a regular. I want to use hip-hop as a gateway for investments. I didn’t have a father growing up so I want to start a mentoring program. I want to give back with anything with youth and kids, More indepth than “Big Brother/Big Sister”, but someone really stepping up. I also volunteer now, doing outreach with young kids about STDs.

elleELLEeye: Who has been the most supportive person throughout your journey?
Lew Static: Rick Madison. I met him with I was 10 years old. My mom was doing music and he was the business mind behind it. They geared their attention towards me and taught me how money was acquired. I learned how to produce my own beats and engineer my own vocals. He thought 10 years ahead.

elleELLEeye: What is the most inspiring bar that you've heard?
Lew Static: Man, that’s a deep one. There’s a few. M.J. "Man in the Mirror". Everybody goes through a situation and sees where they are. That song is timeless. 10, 20 years later [it will still be relevant].

elleELLEeye: Name 5 things you love that no one knows of:
Lew Static: My Wife
My Artists/Label
I love to tell jokes
Eating
Art (Generally paintings and photographs - I can see different perspectives, angles, etc.)

elleELLEeye: If you could relive two moments in time what would they be?
Lew Static: 2007 - I won Delaware "Teen Idol". The place was sold out, close to 1000 people. No one knew me, and I just felt love from everybody.
January 2009/10 I performed at the Chase Center in Delaware for MLK day.

In your home state is where the most hate is, once people recognize your for your craft, you’re a superhero. No one’s made it from Delaware.

elleELLEeye: Where do you see yourself in the next six years?
Lew Static: In the White House with Obama rocking to me! I will be a music man.

elleELLEeye: What's you're next step to pursuing your dreams?
Lew Static: Limited Liability Company. (Static Company) Which means that everything gets written off. Officially we can go to distribution companies and we can be signed as a label. We have all rights to our music. We’ll have control.

Stay in touch with Lew Static via:
Twitter MySpace Facebook Reverb Nation Vimeo Blog

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Written by: Aliciia & ♥ t i f f a n y
Interview by: DANiE

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